Decipher your stock date's physical cues

Decipher your stock date's physical cues





What most of us are unaware about, is that communication is only 20% about words and sentences and the major chunk of it -80% -is actually non-verbal. Clichéd though it may sound, the adage, `actions speak louder than words', holds true when it comes to non-verbal communication. Clinical psychologist Kanan Khatau Chikhal says, “We depend a lot on what a person is saying vis-a-vis noticing what their body postures are, or what their body language is. What people do not say comprises the largest part of what they are trying to say .“ She says that for a better understanding of another person, and for more successful relationships, we need a paradigm shift and we must begin to notice what the other is not saying. 

Seema Hingorrany , psychologist and author says, “A man who is interested in you will always maintain eye contact and lean a bit forward towards you, when talking. He will keep his phone aside and if he is really interested, his eyes will not wander.“

Here are a few signs that you can look out for to translate what he is actually saying non-verbally .